Vision without sight — We’re not falling apart for the sake of falling apart — we’re falling apart with the invitation to rebuild ourselves on the other side. We’re already in the midst/mist of a sudden, radical awakening/rumble. It started in March of 2020 and will continue for the next five or so years…

…and how do I tell when I’m doing it? Spiritual bypass has allowed the narcissistic systems of control to run roughshod over Earth for centuries. I’ll make a bold claim: once the collective has healed from spiritual bypassing, narcissists’ power will be massively curtailed at a global and community level. …

a poem — Love me. Love me even though you’re angry that you love me. Love me even though you don’t understand why. Love me when you’re afraid you don’t. Love me when you’re not sure you know how. Love me even though I disappoint you. …

Getting past the point of overwhelm. — We all have to get to the point where we’re ready to move through instead of sweeping aside our shadows. As best I can tell there is no good to come from trying to rush this process, especially not in another. It is necessary to first come into resonance with…

A poem — “She must be undone,” says The Well. This will not be a neat and tidy affair. Dissolve into the nothing that is all. She must be in a time when she can go to bed and cry the pools of salt for days or even weeks. …

A poem Get down to the oak, bitch. Root down to what’s real. Eat up this precious pain with relish, with olives, and pimento cheese. You didn’t want it, this pain of your soul. Its barred teeth and claw have been packed away and bound tight with bright ribbons leftover from a birthday party your father…

It’s been a hard time for our relationships. — If you clicked on this article, I’m willing to bet someone you care about did something that tipped you over your tipping point. To find out what to do now, we must tease apart two subtle parts. How much space do I need between me and this person who may…

Unhooking yourself is simpler than you think. — Somehow I found occasion this past year to date not one but two gentlemen who displayed the signature behavior patterns of narcissism. After an initial two months of love-bombing bliss, I found myself in a whirlwind of word-salad, fact-checking, confidence-slaying, nonsense arguments. …

Pick your poison, who would you least like to be in the back seat of a cab with? — When she was good, She was very good indeed, But when she was bad she was horrid. –Henry Wadsworth Longfellow Below I’ll give descriptions of how each type acts when they are unhealthy with examples of celebrities who exhibit these qualities. Sneak peek… each Enneagram type is a different flavor…